“I’m a late-night guy.” (Dane Cook)
One thing (of many) that separated #5 from the rest of the bachelor’s was his schedule. He always had me home at a decent hour, even early. In fact, (dare I confess this?) back in the dating stage where I thought he wasn’t interested in me and only asked me out to give a newly divorced single mother social experiences because he felt bad for me, he took me home pretty early one night–and I went out with some single girlfriends after that! When we got engaged, that didn’t change; he always had me home early (by my standards.) It took some getting used to, on my part. He’s not a late-night guy.
In fact, he once commented to me that the people at my house sure stay up late. I was surprised. I seriously hadn’t noticed. But ever since he pointed that out, I can’t help but notice as I occasionally drive toward my home late at night that my house, and just two others on my street, have their lights on past a certain hour. I must be a late-night gal, raising late-night children. And I guess I hadn’t noticed because by the time I get home from work, and my little family spends a decent amount of time together, it’s late at night!
So my late night experiences during the course of my 9-month engagement have been with my children. Here’s a memorable one. From last night.
It was 12:06 a.m. and my oldest and I were up chatting, he was doing homework and I was working on a gift for #5, when my son got an email to his phone. He read it, got a big grin on his face and then read it aloud to me, something like, “Congratulations! You have been accept to Brigham Young University for Fall 2011.”
IT CAME.
We were so excited, we were talking, laughing, joking and celebrating in the kitchen. His life sort of passed before my eyes as my mind was drawn back to the late nights of 1993-94, when I was up in the middle of the night with him every night. The dark nights were so still and quiet I remember feeling like he and I were the only people in the world, and I didn’t mind at all–I treasured every moment I had to enjoy him. It seemed very fitting that BYU contacted him late at night…and totally normal for he and I to be up late at night together!
In the midst of our celebration, we remembered #5 and wanted to share the good news. We knew he was asleep, so we sent him a text. We also know that since he sleeps near his phone in case his children ever need to reach him, it was probably going to wake him up. Late at night. But we did it anyway–we thought it was worth waking up for!
“If people were meant to pop out of bed, we’d all sleep in toasters.” (Author Unknown, attributed to Jim Davis)
Not only had that late night moment been years in the making, we’d had some challenges along the way: his world collapsing temporarily due to the revelations of his father, a divorce, a move to a new state and school, yet he kept his straight A’s even through the midst of all that; his mother returning to the work force full-time so he became the oldest male in our home and “at home” parent before and after school, even had to stay home with sick siblings on occasion–not the typical existence of a high schooler; in addition to school, he also works at Cold Stone; and then a few recent challenges during the application process that made it even more meaningful.
For one, my son had applied to only one college. BYU. He didn’t have a backup plan. That decision was motivated by money–we didn’t want to waste money paying to apply to any other college my son didn’t want to attend, but as time went on, I realized how unintelligent a decision that was and started to worry a little bit. (Especially after we were notified by his high school that they were sorry but they had sent an incorrect transcript and G.P.A. of just one senior to every college he had expressed interest in or that had expressed interest in him, and my son was that lucky student. I told you we have amazing odds at our house! And because the school didn’t correct their mistake for two months we began to worry a little bit about how it would all work out.)
However, last night’s late night memory made it all worthwhile. And #5 shared it with us via text. It was one of those moments we’ll never forget.
“A moment lasts all of a second, but the memory lives on forever.”
Tell him Congratulations! That is so great! Way to dream and watch it come to fruition!
Thanks, I will pass it on! It is wonderful when your dreams come true!
Congratulations Andrea and Son!!! You both should be so proud.
Thanks! We are proud…and so excited.
Congratulations! I’m sure he’ll enjoy it!
Yes he will. He is already dreaming of the fun he’s going to have:)
Congratulations! I applied to two schools: BYU and then Ricks. Ricks rejected me and I had started looking for jobs when out of nowhere, I got the letter from BYU! I still remember that excitement! Way to go!
Yes, we are excited!
Oh my goodness…here I sit teary eyed again! Sooooooo very, very cool. Wow, where has the time gone? It doesn’t seem that long ago that he loved eating the dirt out of our indoor ficus tree! He has worked so hard and is very deserving…
Yes, where has the time gone? And I’m laughing at the memory of the dirt eating.
I think your luck has changed! Congratulations to a very hard working and deserving young man! What a great accomplishment for him and for you mom! This entry brought tears to my eyes, I can feel your love oozing from the page. Woo Hoo!!!!
xoxo
Thanks so much. And yes, our luck has drastically improved since 2 years ago! (Thank goodness:)
Your family is a miracle, especially as you all appreciate your blessings! So great!!
Thank you!